My father lost his battle with cancer just two weeks after my 18th birthday, but that unfortunately isn’t where it stopped. One year later, my grandma who was an unspeakable influence in my life, passed away – followed by several other close family members inside of the next few years. Death was everywhere I turned and  I came to just expect that bad things would happen.

When I met Freddie, nearly 10 years later, he was, quite literally, a physical manifestation of everything I had ever loved.  It was like meeting my soul in another body.  “But there’s no way this can be real, right?” “Everything goes wrong” was still my mindset after all those years.

Then I had a dream.

In the dream I woke up in my childhood bedroom, looked straight ahead at what appeared to be plaster damage on the wall. I called my mom and said “The wall is messed up, I didn’t do it! ”

Mom: “Does it say anything?”

Me:  “No…?”

Mom:  “Well Nina, isn’t it funny that you can’t read the writing on the wall….try harder.”

So I looked again and it turned into black lettering. It was a message from my dad, and it said “NOTHING IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE.”

And just like that my mindset shifted. Everything that I thought could never happen was suddenly possible. The life ahead of me was a blank canvas that I could create without limitation.  Even death changed, it wasn’t this terrifying thing anymore. My dad, and others, were still able to talk to me and share profound wisdom from the other side.

But even more importantly, now it’s time to give this message to YOU. I don’t know who needs to hear this, but someone does. Think you can’t have the life you want? Think again. Whatever is standing in your way is trying to teach you something. Look harder, and it will become crystal clear.  No matter what you are going through, it can, and it will, change for the better. Nothing is impossible, nothing is off the table, and Nothing Is Too Good To Be True.